Today I had the pleasure of sitting with a group of well educated and successful young women. Although their very successful and educated they're lonely. Money doesn't seem to be the cure to their happiness. I mean their insecurities were very baffling to me they are very attractive young women with flashy things and a presence that would light up a room. But they can't seem to light up a man's heart. While we sat and talked and discussed their issues I had a chance to see two of the women ex boyfriends which one was with his new girlfriend and I asked one of the girls how does it make her feel to see someone that she was once in love with in public with somebody else. She replied that it doesn't bother her because he's a piece of shit and he had nothing going for hisself to her he was a moocher "opportunist" that she took care of throughout their relationship. So I asked her why did she waste her time with a deadend ass man which she had no future with and her answer was "because I just needed to feel love for that moment I just wanted to feel complete even if it meant buying my love and affection". That shocked me because I too am guilty of wasting time with men that I know I have no future with. I instantly felt connected to these group of women for the first time in my life I figured out they are more young women like me dealing with the same insecurities and flaws of being a young single beautiful young women with a bright future ahead of them but can't seem to accomplish that one thing we want the most LOVE. Usually women like us fall through what I call the "Hopeless Love Story" what I mean by that we are the few young women that's probably going to encounter plenty of heartbreak and let downs in our life and want ever find our Mr. Right and that perfectly imperfect love story. So how do young women like us get though life knowing that it's a good possibility we probably will forever be alone. We don't women like us feed off other ppl problems that's what get us through our dark days we fantasize about relationships that we'll never have that keeps us having hope. We also blame ourselves for being so good to a man which is normal trait of ours but since we get negative results for being a good women we tend to see the negative things in ourselves and always thinking it's us. But I am one that is growing into a more stronger and wiser young women and coming from the lowest part in my life I finally see where I have a sense of new insight on what my future holds with love and the men I choose to be in my world. But my real mission is to get to the root of why a lot of us young women have these issues about themselves and what's the cause of these things one thing I know from my own experiences that this pattern just don't start from having a few bad breakup this is something that stem for home before we jumped off the porch and into the world of dating, love, and sex.
